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Whether we admit it or not, many people like to watch porn in their spare time. Both men and women will watch in in secret and not tell their partners/dates about it.
But despite this, many couples never choose to watch it together.
This is because men and women prefer different things. Men usually like to watch short, fast action while women enjoy longer, more romantic scenes.  However, this doens’t mean you can’t find some common ground!
Providing it’s nothing too unsual, there’s not reason why you can’t involve this in your own sex lives.  Porn is all about fantasy which in turns sparks the imagination.

Firstly, talk about what sort of thing you get off on.  It’s important that neither of you feels threatened so don’t compare each other to the models you’ll see in adult film.  Nobody likes to feel they are second best or don’t “measure” up.

Once you’ve found some common ground, settle down with a few drinks and watch a film together.

Even if you one of you finds it boring or funny, just have it on in the background while you have sex instead.  The noises alone should turn you both on more than usual.
Why not make your own porn video?  Most mobile phones have built in video cameras with great resolution, so set this up nearby.  If you are nervous about filming yourselves, then just pretend you’ve got a cameraman, director, lighting person in the room.  Act the part and imagine you’re being watched by thousands.   You’ll get an exciting boost to your love making.

Finally, never make pornography a substitute for real sex.  If you don’t have a partner, then search now on datinginsecret.com and hook up with someone near you today!

Good luck,

James Preece – The Dating Guru
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If you are planning a naughty getaway then a little pre-planning can make it much more memorable.

The most important thing is to set the scene so choose the venue wisely . Half of the turn on is actually in her head so you want to let her know you’ve made a big effort to impress her.

Find a decent hotel, preferably one with a four poster bed. If you can afford it, get one with a jacuzzi bath which will add an extra dimension.

Before you set off you need to go shopping.  Buy a good bottle of Champagne and lots of seductive treats like strawberries, honey and chocolate.

Invest in some scented massage oils and candles.  If the room smells nice it will enhance your sexual experiences.

Pack lots of props like blindfolds, lingerie handcuffs and sex toys.  A good vibrator can work wonders for both of you.
Remember to bring some music with you.  You don’t want to have to rely to background noise from a television!

Once you’ve arrived, turn off your phone and spend the weekend purely on each other rather than checking for text messages and emails

The last step is to arrange breakfast in bed for the morning and add the “Do not Disturb” card outside your door!

James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.datinginsecret.com

1) Forget about leagues – there’s no reason why a ten can’t date a five if they are both getting something out of the relationship. it’s not all about looks. Everyone has different things to offer.  If it’s not looks, perhaps you can make people laugh, play the guitar or bake a fantastic cake. Work out what you have going for you and make the most of it!

2) Don’t swoon too soon.  Pretend that you’ve not noticed how wonderful they all to start with.  They’ll work harder if they don’t think you are impressed!  High league people want you to appreciate their less obvious qualities too.

3) High League people rarely get chatted up as everyone else is scared to approach them.  Go up and say hello. They’ll admire you for your courage and positive attitude.

4) Always be the best “you” possible.   If you make sure you always wear your best clothes and look well groomed you’ll instantly become more confident and up your social standing.  Confidence is sexy and stands out a mile!

5) The most important part of going for the people you want is refusing to go for the people that you don’t!  So, from now on, you only approach the ones you are attracted to. It really is this simple – If you want to play in the major leagues, you’ve got to stop wasting time with the minors!

James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.datinginsecret.com

As the Dating in Secret Dating Coach I thought I’d let you know my thoughts on the issue.

Firstly, for those who don’t know, Cougar Dating is where an older woman dates a much younger man.  This trend has come into the public light by such celebrities as Demi Moore, Jennifer Aniston and Sam Taylor-Wood.
The reality of this is that it’s just not happening as much as the media likes to make out.  Unless the woman is very attractive and has looked after herself then she’s really not going to be getting a toyboy….at least not for long.    A Cougar Relationship is fine for a quick fling or when it’s mutually beneficial but it doesn’t usually lead to anything long term.   These cougar’s “cubs” are more likely to enjoy being taken out and treated to clothes, meals, evenings out etc.   They might also like a more experienced woman but they won’t sleep with them unless they have something amazing to offer.
The same goes for older men and younger women.  Unless they have the looks of George Clooney, the wallet of Peter Stringfellow or an amazing personality then the girls aren’t going to be going near them.

Yes, there are exceptions to every rule but generally speaking it’s better to be realistic.  Most men date women around three to five years younger than themselves and aren’t that interested in older women.  Likewise,  younger women are going to be looking for a partner who is just a few years older.

So don’t set yourself unrealistic expectations and only target people who you have a chance of getting interest from.    You could be getting lucky rather than wasting your time wondering why things aren’t going anywhere!

James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.datinginsecret.com

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